I received this book for free from TLC Book Tours for review consideration, opinions expressed are 100% my own. This post contains affiliate links as indicated by an asterisk. Purchases from these links provides a small commission to me at no extra cost to you.Echoes of Family by Barbara Claypole White
Published by Lake Union
Genres: Contemporary, Drama, Fiction, Women's
Setting: Europe > England, North America > USA > North Carolina
Source: TLC Book Tours
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4* I really liked it! Echoes of Family by Barbara Claypole White shows with heart-breaking realism how mental illness impacts the patient, their family and those demons in their past and present that they are always fighting against.
Synopsis from Goodreads:
“Sometimes the only way through darkness is to return to where it began.
Marianne Stokes fled England at seventeen, spiraling into the manic depression that would become her shadow. She left behind secrets, memories, and tragedy: one teen dead, and her first love, Gabriel, badly injured. Three decades later she’s finally found peace in the North Carolina recording studio she runs with her husband, Darius, and her almost-daughter, Jade…until another fatality propels her back across the ocean to confront the long-buried past.
In her picturesque childhood village, the first person she meets is the last person she wants to see again: Gabriel. Now the village vicar, he takes her in without question, and ripples of what if reverberate through both their hearts. As Marianne’s mind unravels, Jade and Darius track her down. Tempers clash when everyone tries to help, but only by finding the courage to face her illness can Marianne heal herself and her offbeat family.”
I felt like I was in a downward spiral. Every time I went into the doctor’s office or someone asked “how are you?”, I’d end up in tears. I felt helpless and like I could not control my emotions. My second son was still a baby and I cherished my little family. We’d waited nearly 3 years before baby #2 finally arrived, why now did I feel like a complete failure as a mother and wife? I finally gave in and the doctor prescribed some medicine for depression.
It was a really scary time for me. I didn’t let my family know what I was feeling or thinking, which only made matters worse. I held that prescription in my hand but I never got it filled. I already rely on very strong meds to control my Rheumatoid Arthritis, I really didn’t want to add more medicines to the mix.
So I knew I had to make a change. That’s actually when I started thinking about my small victories at night as I rocked my baby to sleep. It’s what prompted me later to start a blog of the same name. I was able to pull myself through the negative thoughts. I never did fill that prescription for depression but I know I was lucky. And I know when I’m tired physically or mentally, I start going back to those dark places in my mind. Sometimes I can stop the negative thoughts and sometimes I just can’t.
What struck me hardest in Echoes of Family, is how author Barbara Claypole White uses alternating viewpoints of the different characters to show with heart-breaking realism how manic-depressive bipolar disorder impacts Marianne (the patient) and those she loves most. Each character had demons from their past that they were trying to keep locked up. But demons fight to break through their cages and sparks fly, tempers flare, and hearts are broken and need to be mended when each character tries to come to terms with their past.
Echoes of Family not only speaks to how we deal with tragedy and grief but also the rebuilding of our psyches and the forgiveness we need to heal. To shield them from their pasts, Marianne, her husband Darius and her almost daughter Jade turned to recording music and big name bands while Gabriel, Marianne’s ex, a world apart in location and ideology, turned to his solitude, service and his faith. Gabriel and Darius were as different as night and day yet Marianne loved them both unabashedly. She admits to making a lot of wrong decisions in her past, but now she’s determined to follow her heart and do what is right. Who will she choose and will he still want her after everything she has put them through?
I love books that connect me emotionally to the characters and make me understand people and their illnesses in a different way. I always hope that by learning about different illnesses and raising awareness about them, that it helps me raise more empathetic kids and inspire others to show compassion and understanding for each other. We can’t always see the battles someone is facing, but we can try to walk a mile in another’s shoes before rushing to conclusions.
I recommend Echoes of Family for readers who enjoy family dramas, unpredictable stories and who don’t mind getting inside the head of a patient with mental illness.
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